Tuesday, May 12, 2015
As time goes by, life gets lived. Things you once thought of yourself gets put on a shelf and simply gets dusty. As you, yourself gets rusty and less agile. I love the spring it brings on the expectation of the new. Sun begins to shine the snow melts and the trees begin to bud, flowers bloom. Also for some (like me) almost a feeling of doom. The thoughts of what what hasn't happened yet start to creep in. I know the vale is thin in the spring, as much as it is in the fall. I experience this in the fall as well. Extreme feelings become evident. Spring brings on the wedding season. Justin and I tied the knot (literally a handfasting) this spring, it was a highlight of this year. Following it came the lows. Thoughts of why am I here, what is my purpose in life. Also the budget for Jerid's CDSC plan was today. He is doing better. Which to say is very bitter sweet. You see the way the county sees it, if a disabled person is doing well, they need less money to keep them on the right track. It is the same logic of a construction foreman looking at a tall building with a great foundation, and saying "Okay it looks good, lets take two beams off the bottom, because the top looks good." That frustration aside, it's great he's progressed. Somehow my writing on my blog stopped with the the frustrations of the City of Carver and their need to make us leave our home so they can have a drunken party in front of our home. Which makes me wonder if our family matters in the world at all. I know something needs to change. I just don't know how. We can not (should not have to) move. I'm very much feeling that I am damned if I do and damned if I don't at this point. Looking back I don't think I was ever meant to have the future I dreamed about in my younger years. I know I am so lucky to have Jerid and Justin in my life, to have a roof over my head, as shop in my house and food for my family. I just wished I deserved it. I just wish I had a purpose in life, a direction. Something to contribute to society that made me feel like I belonged in it.
Sunday, September 28, 2014
This past weekend in the City of Carver had their annual event called Carver Steamboat days. It is run by the City of Carver Lions club. Which is an event that takes up the city streets, with music, vendors and a parade. What they don't want people to know is that they had to displace an Autistic Child and his family, so they can block off their home to have a out door concert and beer vendors serve beer until 12 am. on Saturday night.
Ok, I have to admit. Those who have read my blog before, know that it is our family. So let me explain the stresses that come with this. We have been trying to get the Carver Lions Club, and the City of Carver to move this event from in front of our home since we tried to move Justin's father (who was a disabled Vietnam vet. moved back to his home after an extensive stay in a rehabilitation center.) The city did nothing. When we explained that we have a disabled child who lives with us, so they should move the event else where, they just offered a hotel room. We have admit we took it. We felt we have no choice. So leaving our home to a city who doesn't care about it's constituents, and a Lions club who obviously doesn't care about the displacement of a child with autism and his care givers. We had to leave our home.
This year we have gotten ourselves a lawyer. Not much good it did us. (not that we are ungrateful for what our lawyer did for us. She was as awesome as she could be not being an expert of this section of law, she did move small mountains.) We still had to leave our home. The only up side was we got food added to their bill. So at least we didn't have to scrape for food, which we had to do the last two years.
We also found out last year that The City of Carver has been shooting off fireworks within 200 yards from our house, in doing so on the weekend after labor day weekend 2007 (or 2008) they did in fact light our home on fire. We were told this after we had gotten a new roof. This was at the time when Justin's father owned the house and was in the hospital. We also found out that they didn't have a permit for those years and not one mention to the family, from the City or from the Lion's club. So when we did get the lawyer we were told by the city we had to evacuate our home so they can shoot off the fireworks. Our lawyer called the state fire marshal. We then found out that evacuation of a family home for fireworks is 100% illegal and in contacting the state fire marshal our lawyer did get the fire works moved away from our house.
This was what was blocking us from our home. Our lawyer told us we could go home by Sunday night we couldn't believe they only left us enough room for our Honda civic to get threw the rows of bleacher and garbage cans. They moved them the next morning after we made a comment on Facebook with a picture of what they considered clearing our drive way. They said they would clean up around our yard, it took them two days and us contacting them on Facebook yet again to get them to do what they promised.
Yep this in front of our home. What would you do?
Out raged yet? It gets better. Since we have moved into this home which has been in Justin's family for 5 generations. We have been accused of trying to shut down the whole event. We asked them to move it, they then ask us to find a more appropriate site for the concert. When we point out that they have 4 parks large enough to host the event, without having to move people out of their home. They then say it wouldn't work, because people would complain. (really?) We have been asked by the City of Carver and the Lion's club why we moved there if we didn't like the event there. (again really?) We also have been asked why we are complaining, they don't offer a hotel to anyone else. (what?)
We don't want to take away their event, we just want it to be moved. So we can enjoy the celebration and even participate, maybe make people aware of the autism community.
All we are asking for is the quiet serenity of our home, and access to it 100 % of the time.
Please help this post go viral!!! Let the City of Carver, and the Carver Lions Club know that they are wrong in displacing our family.
Thank you for your support. I would also like to thank our Lawyer, who did everything she could and the State of Minnesota's fire Marshal, that got the fire works a safe distance from our home.
Wednesday, January 01, 2014
|Intergalactic folk festival 2013|
|new bridge started in 2012, finished 2013|
The car brake downs haven't really been all that new. On Christmas day our cars rod that holds the hood open fell across the battery, shorting out the whole car. Not fun!
|new roof 2013, YaY!|
We only had one bat in the house, I was on line and in my sewing room when it happened, of course Justin was at band practice. So I locked myself in my room until Justin came home. The most frustrating of all is when Justin came home, there was no bat. Haven't seen it since. Now he thinks I'm crazy. (Just kidding, he believes me)
Random scratching in the walls are happening as well, we haven't been brave enough to investigate, we think it's a raccoon, or a possum. Not sure, we just know it loves to scratch, and if you tap on the walls where it is, it will hiss at you. No clue.
|steamboat days, how are we supposed to get home|
So I'll finish off this blog post with pictures with descriptions, because all of a sudden my computer is acting up. Instead of fighting with it for an hour and loosing here it goes! Love technology!
|new shop sign! 2013|
|bees getting a new home away from ours! 2013|
So I'm hoping that this year is a little bit less critter based. Can't wait!
(or maybe I can.)
Thank you and Happy New Year!
Wednesday, October 09, 2013
|Big ass tent in front of our house Steamboat days 2013.|
|Jerid and Justin riding the Elephant at MN Ren. Fest. Festival Friday|
Please, feel free to comment on the ones you are thinking about.
Have a safe and Happy Halloween everyone!
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
|TJ Windows adding a new roof to our home, pic. taken by|
In addition to getting a roof Jerid got a therapy swing for his room. It took a few tries to get the swing to get it up but with my Dad's help and a few 2x4's a piece of our old bunk bed from when I was a kid it was put up. We think he likes it because he has used it allot and has helped us help him with some of his anxiety and gives him somewhere else to hang out in his room other then his bed.
Jerid also has already had a couple of weeks of summer day camp at Mount Olivet Rolling Acres and summer school so far so good, no major upsets. Except he has been not wanting to swim. For the last few months he has been not wanting to go to or be in a pool, water parks he's been cool with but swimming not so much, I don't know if I should be worried or not. It's not his usual behavior.
Now for some other news...We went to ConVergance this year as we do in most years, Justin has made some prints of his artwork as greeting cards and I made a quilt for the Art show, he sold a couple of cards with the print of Straganona vs. the flying spaghetti monster. I sold my Tardis quilt. Which as always is great news! We also got a long time friend to join us, she was very reluctant but in the end she was happy and met new friends along the way.
The sad part is we have decided that this is our last ConVergance, do to the fact that it is a longer con and there for more money. Also trying to get care for Jerid for two night requires the caregiver to take him over the fourth of July weekend. Though my Mom and Dad have been taking him he has been proving to be more and more challenging for them to take him, besides I really am sick of the same arguments every year of, "I didn't know I would be taking him for Fourth of July weekend for the rest of my life." So we are on the look out for other smaller cons that we can take him with on or one that doesn't fall on a holiday weekend and is not a four day con. I could rant allot about it but the end result is the same.
For the weekend after ConVergance we planned a "Interplanetary folk music festival", in our back yard. It has been thrown around to be an annual thing. That isn't the fun part, so the Monday after Con, we had swarm of honey bees in our house, we thought it was do to the new roof. We had bad boards and hornets nests, birds and squirrels, so Honey bees are not too surprising, we thought they were trying to find a way out, well to our surprise they were trying to move in. Tuesday the queen arrived. Two of the musicians have extreme allergies to bees. So we had a few bee keepers, one was a contractor who keeps bees on his off time and the other was the head bee keeper from the Mustard Seed, that were interested in getting them out of our walls but apparently once bees move in it takes allot for them to want to move out. So we told everyone about the bees, and told those allergic how to get to the nearest Hospital from our house and staked out with caution tape where they hive was and had the out side concert anyway. Which turned out to be a beautiful day with only one flash flood warning and one set moving into the house then moved promptly back outside since it did not rain and only one person who was rushed to the hospital, do to a broken arm, not the bees. Eric and Lizzy who came all the way from Iowa that they had a lovely time and would love to do it again. So that is counted as a win!
We are now awaiting the specialty supplies to get the bees out, by removing the outside boards and digging into our walls then hopefully they will be removed by next week. Way to late for the festival but better late then never.
As for knitting I have been milking a the same projects as last time with an addition to starting to spin again. I had gotten a lovely fleece from my friends the Beth and Jon and Alpaca from Missy and Jerry, so I've been taking my time to learn how to clean fleece and make it into roving. It has been quite the Adventure.
Also since the new roof we have been doing more cleaning of the up stairs I am hoping that my future sewing room will be cleaned out and ready of fixing by fall.
Justin is still working on his illustrations for his kids book, 'There is more to Life then Monsters' he is on his second illustration and it is looking amazing! To see any of his art work check his Ogsnartsarts on Facebook.
I would also like to say that the shop will be open this weekend starting on Thursday til Sunday please stop by.
Monday, June 10, 2013
|MN river morning in Carver MN.|
Pict. taken by Justin Hartley
Jerid is off of school, Jerid's last day of school was at Valley Fair. I wasn't impressed with how they treat their disabled guests. First off I would like to point out that if you have a PCA, Parra, or Support Staff to go with you for your day of fun to Valley Fair, they do not get in free, they are not discouted, full price or bust. (last year they were aloud to get in free, not this year)
To establish that one of their patrons is disabled is frustrating enough they expected us after getting the proper paperwork taken care of they expected us to go back out side and wait in line to get in, when the pass allows the disabled party to bi-pass all lines. When argued with they seemed annoyed that we pointed it out but aloud us to bi-pass the line. Next on the sheet of paper the ride conductors are allowed to turn the disabled person away to come back at a different time. Most of these kids have to go against a crowd of people coming off the ride to get to the ride then after they are so close to the ride, are made to leave to come back 20 minutes later, WTF? My son is pretty easy going, but he's not above a tantrum hell at that point I'm not above having a tantrum. What difference does it make that a disabled person cut in line now or twenty minutes from now? So I'm warning all that want to go to Valley Fair who have a disabled child or client that it may not a good idea. Other wise we had a pretty good day.
So summer brake is here we are trying to establish a groove at home. School usually gives us a window of time without Jerid, so we can get the things Jerid hates to do, done without him. Summer does not allow such things to happen as easily. Before the start of the brake we had gotten the loan taken care of for a new roof. YaY! No word yet on a start date, but we did sign papers with dotted I's and crossed T's so we just have to rely on mother nature to have a few days without rain, because they put us on the list, the more clear days the closer and faster they can get to us on that list. I've been racking my brains to figure out what I'm doing for ConVergance this year. I'm thinking about making a quilt, don't know if it will be done by then but I'll be working a little bit on it day by day to see where it takes me by 4th of July weekend. Temperance Arts and Gifts now has an Etsy site! email@example.com check it out, not much is there, ideas are always welcome.
Justin and I are hosting a house concert, The Feng Shui Ninjas, Beth Kinderman and the player Characters, possibly Candles Enough and Cheshire Moon. July 13,2013. In Carver MN. for more info check out www.fengshuininjas.com, www.bethkinderman.com or check them out on Facebook.
So not much more to report. Thanks for reading.
Tuesday, April 23, 2013
|Bug Bee Hive resort, front door of our cabin|
Per request, no pictures of the knitters have been taken this year, but this was the view from our front door of the cabin we were in.
To clarify, this is a picture taken in April of this year, and yes that is about six to nine inches of snow on the ground. It snowed most of time we there, but then the sun came out and melted most of it then it would snow again. Every one got there safely and returned safely as well so it was a good weekend.
|tree in my parents front yard 4-23-13|
I've been dying yarn lately. (as my previous post has shown.) I also have received another sheep pelt. I have to clean it, but Justin has been heavily hinting on getting me a carder. I've been saving up, and tax money may be helping in this investment. The Minnesota Shepard Harvest Festival is coming up on Mother's day. So we will see if it is in the cards by then.
We need to see about a roof for our house first. House comes first then the fun.
|Carver road left completely covered in snow, right almost melted|
Jerid is doing well with his schooling, he is following directions so much better then he has in the past. He now has home work to do. Which he is like most kids not willing to show us, but we have to take it out of his bag and make him do his sentences. He will be going to high school next year so his paras have been gearing him up for the transfer. His teachers have expressed that they will be missing him.
Justin has been working on his illustrated book about monsters, finally got past the writing and mapping out process, now to the making of the pages! I am so excited to see him do this.
The shop in our house is still there. We get allot of traffic in Carver, just have allot more antique hunters, then handmade junkies. We were open this past weekend. Thanks to Karen, of https://www.facebook.com/pages/Larsenstitches/307418729306601?ref=hl who made that possible, while I was on retreat.
So thanks for reading. Till next time.